Explanation for Reciprocity.....simply put....you "get what you give;" so, therefore in Successful-Reciprocity we explore how we get what we want...
This is true for any phase of life; you get what you give. If we are sloppy with our work, it is noticed, yet if we are neat and orderly it will be noticed. The same is true with performance. If you do 110 percent on your job...someone, someday will notice. If you give less than 100 percent, it will be noticed also. If you are lazy, it will noticed probably before you can say I had a lousy night....because everyday; you had a lousy night. To be Successful - and to get the end results we want we must put something in it worthwhile. It does not come to you...you go after it and what you get is what you give; bottom line.
If you are a good parent, it is going to show in your children, one way or the other. If you spoil your children, it is going to show...if you are not consistent with your children, it is going to show. If you are negligent in any area of your life, it is going to show. If you go to Church and keep up your spiritual life, it will show but if you do not, you will become self center and life will be all about you....the soul must be in harmony for the heart to be in the right place to receive good things back from what you have given. If you don't believe that your soul has an emphasis on what you produce in your life...you need to think again and go through some personal growth
There is nothing in life that is profitable with little work...never heard of it, never seen it and do not ever expect it to be and you should not either. I have heard that the best things in life are free. I do not know if I believe that. Here is why.. It has been said that love is free. Love must be worked at, or it will diminish. If you do not take percautions to feed that love with returning love properly ...and misuse it...you will loose it. If you negelect it, it will leave. Anything in life...has a balance that is required to keep it flowing properly. Yes, I do believe that God's earth is free beauty to behold but even that beauty must be in some way fashioned by someone's labor.
One can say they are working toward a certain goal. Yet, they never seem to be getting anywhere. They know they are not getting anywhere...yet they make no further effort to receive the benefits of working hard. Of course, there will be someone watching and it will be noticed. You can't get anywhere without first starting and keeping at it. If you put in a little and do not get what you desire, then it means, you haven't done enough. The fruits of our labor will be large, medium or small, and possibly nothing but the same old, same old. Depending upon how we have toiled, rested or just quit. Procrastination is not a sign of achievement...not now, not ever. If we quit, it is hard to start again...and if you do not have enthusiasm, the job will not be done well.
One must create the ground work. If you are not excited about your work, you efforts to change your life, whatever it is you are endeavoring.....you are not going the reap the results you want. Successful Success comes with a need and with that need one must know, not only that they want it, but that they deserve it, and they can do work to get it. They must know that it takes their dedication, their labor....and know that without the labor nothing comes to you. They must be enthusiastic, and believe in what they are aspiring to do. If you can't get the light at the end of the tunnel, are discouraged and have become a little lazy; then you need to gather your thoughts and figure out why.... Becoming Successful- Reciprocity...means that you will only get, what you put into it....
Monday, April 5, 2010
Successful - The Opposition
Sometimes the things that bother us the most are the very things that make us work harder and accomplish more within our journey to being Successful. At least it seem that is how I deal with trying to be Successful-and The Opposition which sometimes come with it. One should remember that everyone does not see the light at the end of the tunnel. Mostly positive individuals are subject to thinking like this. Discouragement is going to happened from different sources, without a doubt, that is just life in its essence. People are not positive a lot of times with anyone's abilities but their own, because they let their ego, their jealousy and self thinking, get in the way of trying to encourage someone and thereby discourage them. Let's face it, a lot of people are self center and do not understand that words spoken are powerful. In realizing that humans are sometimes frivolous, it is up to you the individual to be prepared for discourage and empty words from others. It is important to learn that sometimes you must limb the latter to where you are going totally alone. At least it seems that way.....
One must set their mind on the end results or should I say the upper path because somewhere we have already read that Success is a Journey...not an Destination....Still we must keep striving for the triumphant and rewards as we journey up the path. No one has ever acknowledged that the trip is an easy one. Sometimes we must alter our path as our goals call for something that is not attainable without making the deviation. It can be that you need more education to get what you desire, therefore deviation in not loss. It is entirely gain and it doesn't matter if someone says, "I told you so." Just do it and learn to say, hey that's okay, this path is meant for learning within my journey to being Successful---with The Opposition.
Opposition is common for anyone who is facing a challenge. It does not have to be another person actually, it can be life. I have seen the time that it seemed that every thing imaginable happened to me when I least expected it and when I really felt as though I was accomplishing something worth while. It is not always things we can understand or that makes sense, sometimes is can merely be an interruption of our thinking when it seems we are having a break through and when we are getting the right vibes, maybe to figure out the formula of what we need to do or making a hard decision and all of a sudden the phone rings and it is someone who wants to chat for an hour. It can be a co-worker needing a helping hand in their life and you just do not have time...but remember inspiration comes in different forms. Never pass up an opportunity to help someone else for you never know when you may need a helping hand yourself. This kind of giving is part of your path to finding a Successful Journey.
Never run from an encounter with someone you haven't seem for a while. The chance meeting could give you some clear prospective on your journey. If we learn to listen to what is being said, direction can come from unpredicted sources and it can even be from someone who is being negative. I have found that the more negative someone is about something I believe in; the more dedication it brings to my endeavors to prove to myself, not to them, I am not wrong about my inspirations.
Some thoughts about opposition:
If you never had opposition, then might not realize the importance of pressing on toward the goal.....
Opposition is the opportunity to find out if you are right about who you think you are...when someone else says differently....
Opposition is an opportunity to make yourself choose to take the road less traveled, rather than taking the easy road...it can help you overcome fear of doing something...
Opposition can make your stronger just by helping you continue something you have already been telling yourself, you can't do...
by: Linda
We have to remember no on has the authority to tell us that we should quit our endeavors...it is our choice. Nothing is more important than gaining more respect for yourself and sometimes you gain that respect and self confidence after you have made a remarkable discovery about yourself and your strenghts when something or someone has tried to hindered your process. You are the enabler or disabler....it is up to you...no one else can make you fail to accomplish your desires...Grab each Opposition and make an opportunity out of it....you might just find out you are further along on your path than you think....
© copywrite 04/05/2010
One must set their mind on the end results or should I say the upper path because somewhere we have already read that Success is a Journey...not an Destination....Still we must keep striving for the triumphant and rewards as we journey up the path. No one has ever acknowledged that the trip is an easy one. Sometimes we must alter our path as our goals call for something that is not attainable without making the deviation. It can be that you need more education to get what you desire, therefore deviation in not loss. It is entirely gain and it doesn't matter if someone says, "I told you so." Just do it and learn to say, hey that's okay, this path is meant for learning within my journey to being Successful---with The Opposition.
Opposition is common for anyone who is facing a challenge. It does not have to be another person actually, it can be life. I have seen the time that it seemed that every thing imaginable happened to me when I least expected it and when I really felt as though I was accomplishing something worth while. It is not always things we can understand or that makes sense, sometimes is can merely be an interruption of our thinking when it seems we are having a break through and when we are getting the right vibes, maybe to figure out the formula of what we need to do or making a hard decision and all of a sudden the phone rings and it is someone who wants to chat for an hour. It can be a co-worker needing a helping hand in their life and you just do not have time...but remember inspiration comes in different forms. Never pass up an opportunity to help someone else for you never know when you may need a helping hand yourself. This kind of giving is part of your path to finding a Successful Journey.
Never run from an encounter with someone you haven't seem for a while. The chance meeting could give you some clear prospective on your journey. If we learn to listen to what is being said, direction can come from unpredicted sources and it can even be from someone who is being negative. I have found that the more negative someone is about something I believe in; the more dedication it brings to my endeavors to prove to myself, not to them, I am not wrong about my inspirations.
Some thoughts about opposition:
If you never had opposition, then might not realize the importance of pressing on toward the goal.....
Opposition is the opportunity to find out if you are right about who you think you are...when someone else says differently....
Opposition is an opportunity to make yourself choose to take the road less traveled, rather than taking the easy road...it can help you overcome fear of doing something...
Opposition can make your stronger just by helping you continue something you have already been telling yourself, you can't do...
by: Linda
We have to remember no on has the authority to tell us that we should quit our endeavors...it is our choice. Nothing is more important than gaining more respect for yourself and sometimes you gain that respect and self confidence after you have made a remarkable discovery about yourself and your strenghts when something or someone has tried to hindered your process. You are the enabler or disabler....it is up to you...no one else can make you fail to accomplish your desires...Grab each Opposition and make an opportunity out of it....you might just find out you are further along on your path than you think....
© copywrite 04/05/2010
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